Dear Blog, Sorry I've been avoiding you....

I feel like I haven't posted in ages.  It's not that I have nothing to say - its that I'm too damn lazy.  Anyway.....I have been working on my list.  Here are some things in the works:

11. Watch all the Star Wars movies.

This is currently a work in progress.  Spike had a marathon on a few weeks ago of Episodes 1-3. So, I watched them. For the most part, I fell asleep for a little bit in the middle of Episode 1, but by Episode 3 I was definitely hooked. Doug now refuses to answer any questions I ask about Star Wars (I've asked him a  billion). He's making me watch the movies to figure it out for myself.

22. Have a trash the dress photo shoot done.

This is semi in the works. I currently don't fit into my wedding dress. *sadface* but I talked to my photographer and we have a game plan of what the shoot is going to be. So, I just need to get my ass in gear to fit back into my dress, then we'll schedule the shoot and it'll be a done deal! :-)  THEN, I can check off #6, Get Wedding Dress Cleaned, after the shoot!

25. Go to the gym a minimum of twice a week for a month straight.

CHECK! I can't believe I accomplished this goal!! Really, for me - this is such a big deal.  I switched back to my old gym and I've really be doing a great job at going. There was only one week that I only went to the gym twice. Most of the time, I went 3 times a week.  I had my monthly check in with my trainer - unfortunetly, there's been no real progress with weight loss. My weight has gone up - my BMI is the same, and all of my measurements are the same except for losing an inch off my hips and a 1/2 inch off my thighs. So, I guess that's something. I'm a little bummed that my trainer won't be around next month and he's going to set me up with someone else.  I feel like that may make me lose some motivation.  Starting Monday, I'm going to change up my gym routine a little bit to go 5 times a week and take the weekends off. 

Part of my routine has also been to do a buttload of crunches - its been tough, but in no time - I should be able to check off task number 31, Complete 100 crunches with ease.  Now, I'll just have to stick with keeping the goal instead of checking it off and moving on.

26. Lose 30 pounds by June 1, 2010.

Unfortunetly, realistically - this is just not going to happen.  June 1st is 2 months away...there's no way I can lose 30lbs in 2 months. I haven't lost anything since I started that goal. However - I'm still working towards the goal of losing the weight - I'm just not going to make the deadline I set for myself.

Wow. That was a big update. There's more to say - but I don't want to bore anyone with my useless ramblings anymore. haha

Letter writing...

I have two goals that involve letter/card writing....

70. Send 12 cards or letters for no reason at all, and
84. Write letters to the people that molded me into who I am today and thank them for it.

Last night, I took out my stationary and wrote out a card to a very special friend.  He was my best friend growing up, we were the real life Dawson and Joey, I swear..which is probably why I enjoyed watching Dawson's Creek so much. haha

Anyway - as with most young friendships, especially when it is between a girl and a boy, once the friends start to grow up and date the friendship changes as much as you don't want it to.  It doesn't help when one of them moves away.  However, no matter how many new friends you meet along the way - no one can quite replace your childhood best friends. Not new friends, not boyfriends, not husbands. 

I haven't seen "Dawson" since we were Juniors in high school....he moved the summer going into our Senior year.  We rarely speak anymore.  There will be an occasional, how are you on facebook and that's usually the extent of it - typically, those how are you's are one sided....with no response - but I get it - he's busy.

In less than a month he is heading to Afghanistan until Christmas time.  So, I felt the need to just let him know one last time how much our friendship meant to me growing up and how as the years pass and we grow further and further apart...no one can replace the best friend I always found in him. I kept putting this letter off, not knowing exactly what to say - but I knew I needed to write it before he headed off to Afghanistan. So, last night - I consumed the biggest glass of wine I think I've ever consumed...and sat down and wrote. Before I could change my mind, I sealed the envelope. 

The letter is in the mail, I've done something I've been wanting to do for a long time now...and I have a little in progress for goal number 84. 

Theme Parties

My friend's are whining that we need a get together. I agree - a get together is in order. However, we don't really have a real reason to get together for none other than to see each other. Typically - Doug and I host events such as the superbowl, Colts/Pats game, Christmas party....but it's not Christmas time, and it's not football season - so, what's the excuse we can use to host a get together?? 

Item number 15 on my list is to Host a Theme party! That's the excuse I'm going with. However - what theme should I go with?? I really have no clue. Suggestions?

Christmas, already??

No - not quite. BUT - I did tell myself in an effort to save money this holiday season, I was going to spread out my Christmas shopping for the whole year and buy one gift each month (goal #55).  Unfortunetly, I didn't get to place an order in February because I just couldn't figure out what to buy for people.  It's actually a lot harder than you would think to spread your shopping out over the course of one year. So many people I shop for are the type of people that buy themselves stuff whenever they need it - so, trying to think of something they're not going to buy isn't easy. 

Lakeside Collection is just about my favorite thing in the entire world. I just placed an order for a few gifts for people, including 2 Christmas gifts.  So, since February only has 28 days and *technically* if it was any other month - we'd still be in the month of February - I'm going to cheat a little and say that I've succeeded in my task. :-)

First - My brother collects shot glasses.  He usually displays them on his bureau. Personally - I hate clutter and that's exactly what his bureau looks like with all the shot glasses lined up. So, I bought him this:

Best part is - It only cost $8.95!!!

Then, Big M is such a landscaping buff. He has trickets and stuff all over the yard. He ALSO collects clocks. So, I thought this gift would be perfect for him:

It's an outdoor clock and the other side is a thermometer. It cost $19.95!!! 

I also purchased this new bedset for my sister. 

                                  

She loves butterflies. I was going to tuck it away for Christmas, but Ma Duke made the good point that it would be great for the spring/summer. So, since my sister's birthday is in May - she'll get it then. For a full size bed the entire set only cost me $39.95.

I've been hunting for a Beauty and the Beast snow globe the past few years for my sister for a Christmas gift. Unfortunetly - they are ridiculously expensive. I got something in the mail last week about getting a new Disney Credit Card (which gives GREAT Disney benefits!) and Doug and I are hoping to make it to Disney for our one year anniversary (goal #14) - so, hopefully I'll be able to get her that snow globe for Christmas this year.